Insights
Lectures and Stories 2003

Translated by Jutta ten Herkel. English edition of "Die Mitte fühlt sich leicht an"

Paperback. 2003. 138 pages. ISBN 3-89670-281-5. Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

This is a first collection of Bert Hellinger' s lectures and stories now translated into English. In this book he allows us to confront without fear the deep issues of guilt and conscience and brings to light the hidden orders through which love within and between people and groups succeeds.
These stories attempt to lead us to a peaceful centre - a place where we can be collected and calm, in touch with our deepest love and longing, in tune with the world, and from which our relationships can be fulfilled and our lives healed. This is a book of wisdom: exciting, moving and profound.

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Farewell
Family Constellations with Descendants of Victims and Perpetrators

Translated by Colleen Beaumont. English edition of "Der Abschied".

Paperback. 2003. 253 pages. ISBN 3-89670-395-1. Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

In his years of experience with patients, Hellinger has witnessed the consequences of the guilt of persecutors and the fate of victims of Nationalsocialism for subsequent generations. This book documents the attempt to help these patients confront the victims and persecutors in their own families and thereby lessen and even heal their suffering. In doing so, all participants are allowed to speak: survivors, children, even the guilty and the dead. When these voices are recognized, they withdraw and allow the living to transcend that boundary which still separates them from death.

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To the Heart of the Matter. Brief Therapies

Translated by Colleen Beaumont. English edition of "Mitte und Maß"

Paperback. 2003. 252 pages. ISBN 3-89670-396-X . Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

In his courses and seminars Bert Hellinger works with patients to map out family constellations in a highly concentrated form. This book documents for the first time these highly intensive short-term therapies. These sessions provide insights into the hidden realities and broken relationships revealing new perspectives.

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The River Never Looks Back
Historical and Practical Foundations of Bert Hellinger´s Family Constellations

Franke, Ursula 2003

Translated by Karen Leube. English edition of "Systemische Familien-Aufstellung"

Paperback. 2003. 176 pages. ISBN 3-89670-391-9. Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

About the theory and practice of the method of systemic family constellation. Ursula Franke provides a well-grounded historical overview of the precursors to family constellations. In addition, she presents and defines the central terminology of these methods and a hypothetical model that attempts to explain the efficacy of constellations and deals with a number of questions that emerge when actually carrying them out. The empirical section of the book allows a look at the procedure that is used in the process of a constellation, from the therapist˜s initial hypotheses to the resolution stage of the constellation. Franke explains, step-by-step, the application in individual therapy. In addition, the possibilities for and limitations of using constellations in individual therapy are discussed. The study focuses on therapy with anxiety patients.

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The Art and Practice of Family Constellations.
Leading Family Constellations as Developed by Bert Hellinger

Ulsamer, Bertold 2003

Translated by Colleen Beaumont. English edition of "Handwerk des Familien-Stellens"

Paperback. 2003. 198 pages. ISBN 3-89670-398-6. Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

Using the systemic family therapy developed by Bert Hellinger, tensions and conflicts within families can be revealed. Through the use of representatives, the person involved can observe the psychic dynamics of his or her own family, and identify the patterns which are destructive. In his book, Bertold Ulsamer explains the basis of family constellations, considers the task and the role of the therapist in the field of subjective experience and objective knowledge. He addresses the use of language and the issue of dealing with emotions. His book is aimed at therapists and others who are interested in the practical applications of the Hellinger therapy.

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Love's Hidden Symmetry. What Makes Love Work in Relationships

Bert Hellinger / Gunthard Weber / Hunter Beaumont 1998

352 pages. ISBN 1-891944-00-2

Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.

Bert Hellinger, Gunthard Weber and Hunter Beaumont have collaborated to present a beautiful collage of poetry, healing stories, transcripts of psychotherapeutic work and moving explanations of the hidden dynamics and symmetry love follows in intimate relationships. Original and provocative enough to change how you think about familiar themes.

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Love's Own Truths. Bonding and Balancing in Close Relationships

Bert Hellinger / Gunthard Weber / Hunter Beaumont 1998

English edition of "Ordnungen der Liebe"

464 pages. ISBN 1-891944-48-7

Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.
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Love's Own Truths represents another important milestone in the search toward an even greater understanding of the intricacies of relationship and resolution. Bert Hellinger describes "Love's Own Truths" as a fundamental statement of his approach.

Touching Love. Bert Hellinger at Work with Family Systems. Documentation of a Three-Day-Course for Psychotherapists and their Clients

1997. 186 pages. ISBN 3-8967 0-022-7 . Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

Bert Hellinger demonstrates the Hidden Symmetry of Love operating unseen in the lives of persons suffering with serious illness and difficult life circumstances. This book is a full documentation of a workshop for professionals held near London in February, 1996.

Touching Love (Volume 2 ). A Teaching Seminar with Bert Hellinger and Hunter Baumont

1999. 256 pages. ISBN 3-89670- 122-3

Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.

This book contains the written documentation of a three-day-course for psychotherapists and their clients. It offers mental health professionals and interested non-professional readers a look in slow-motion at Bert Hellinger and Hunter Beaumont at work.

Acknowledging What Is. Conversations with Bert Hellinger

Bert Hellinger and Gabriele ten Hövel

English edition of "Anerkennen, was ist"
1999. 162 pages. ISBN 1-891944-32-0

Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.

Deepen your understanding of Hellinger's transformative ideas on the »Natural Orders of Love« with his latest work - a moving dialog between the tough-minded journalist and the »Caretaker of the Soul«. A very important lecture to understand Bert Hellinger.

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Supporting Love. How Love works in Couple Relationships. Bert Hellinger's Work with Couples

Edited by Johannes Neuhauser 2001

The english edition of »Wie Liebe gelingt«

228 pages. ISBN 1-891944-49-5. Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.

"In this expertly edited book, Johannes Neuhauser brings an artist's eye to Bert Hellinger's unique approach, and shows that beneath the surface of his often-startling work there is a gentle tenderness that calls - softly und steadily - to the truths that lay resting in our hearts. It is refreshing in this era of psychotherapeutic relativism to come across the work of a therapist who takes a quiet and clear-sighted stand for the centrality of love in human life. The power of the work that has emerged from Hellinger's unwavering focus on the flow of love in relationships is remarkable; it will touch any who come into contact with it - professional und lay readers alike." (Arthur Roberts, M.A., Editor und Co-Director, The Gestalt Press)

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On Life and other Paradoxes. Aphorisms and Little Stories

2002. 88 pages. ISBN 1-891944-89-4

Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, Inc.

A good poem can hold the universe in a few words. This collection of Bert Hellinger's aphorisms and stories shows what happens when a healer's mind works with a poet's pen. Single truths become manifold. Small affirmations take on great power. Soothing stories carry tough messages. And sometimes reality gets turned absolutely upside down, and though we may squirm in our seats, we understand something more than we did before.

Rachel Weeping for Her Children. Family Constellations in Israel

2003 appr. 248 pages. ISBN 3-89670-424-9. Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

The family constellations of Bert Hellinger make visible the often startling entanglements of individuals and families in their past and present. This image allows for deep, soul-touching movements of the soul towards resolutions previously unconsidered. Not only the participants, but also observers, are touched and moved in new directions. This transcribed documentation of a family constellations workshop allows readers to experience this process and join in the movements towards peace and resolution in their own souls.
The setting of this workshop in Isreal, a land burdened by a grief laden past and present, adds a dimension of depth and poignancy to the bealing power of love

Holding Love. A Teaching Seminar on Love's Hidden Symmetry

3 Volumes. Length 7 hours.

in PAL (European) format: Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag ISBN 3-89670 -173-8

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The professional Reference Series documents Bert Hellingers resolution-oriented approach to working with intimate relationship systems. The series is intended primarily for practitioners who wish to learn this approach. Holding Love was recorded in San Francisco (1999). The participants are mental health professionals and their clients, and the work covers a wide range of issues.

Healing Love. A Teaching Seminar on Love's Hidden Symmetry

3 Volumes. Length 7 hours.

in PAL format from Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag, ISBN 3-89670 -174-6
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Healing Love was recorded in Washington (1999). Like Holding Love it is intended primarily for practioners who wish to learn this approachThe participants are mental health professionals and their clients, and the work covers a wide range of issues

Adoption (Volume 1 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 90 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -072-3

Hellinger demonstrates how »love's hidden symmetry« can guide families in distress. In this case, workshop participants who are dealing with problems related to adoption discover ways to support hopeful alternatives in their lives.

Honoring the Dead and Facing Death (Volume 2 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 80 minutes. ISBN 3-89670- 154-1

Three different family constellations are presented to reveal the depth and power of this approach as family members struggle to deal with the difficult issues of death and dying.

Blind Love - Enlightened Love (Volume 3 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 75 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -155-X

This presentation shows how children's blind love for their parents perpetuates family dysfunction. In three family constellations Hellinger demonstrates how this love can be transformed into the enlightened love that supports well-being.

Grieving for Children (Volume 4 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-8967 0-156-8

In this powerful video, four different family systems move toward resolution in the wake of the loss of a child.

Trans-Generational Systemic Effects (Volume 5 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -157-6

Hellinger guides participants toward restoration of the flow of love that nurtures growth when entanglements across generations have disrupted it.

Hidden Family Dynamics (Volume 6 )

1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-89670- 158-4

Four family constellations show the harmful identifications that children sometimes have with parents and grandparents. Hellinger works with participants to acknowledge hidden dynamics and to discover healthy ways to recover compassion and love.